cant raise a man NO NO NO !

Listen,
He got older, but never grew,
For his life he can't tell the truth.
How to love he ain't got a clue,
Playing games like he'll never lose you.

Try to talk to him, can't get through,
Every day he's a different dude.
These are the signs of a grown ass boy,
Better run for the hills, I'm just trying to keep it real.

You can't raise a man, he's already grown, what you gonna do?
You wonder why he acts like a boy. If he wasn't raised right before you
Girl, you ain't never gonna change nobody, if he don't wanna, you can't make nobody.
'Cause you can't raise a man, no, no.

Coming home any time at night, expecting you to let it ride
How many tears are you gonna cry? Playing games like he'll never lose you
You know that the love is changed, how many times he called you out your name?
These are the signs of a grown ass boy,
Better run for the hills, I'm just keeping it real.

when i grow up . ...

i get asked all the time what i want to be when i grow up i always say i want to be a lawyer , but who really knows what they really want to be in high school and middle school my mind always changes i cant be so sure of what i want to be because im still growing and experiencing things as i live idk if my mind will change in the next year or so or if being a lawyer is really what i will live up to. As reality sets in and the dreams of maybe being an astronaut, a nurse, a lawyer turn into something you must begin planning to achieve,Career Fairs are held to help you figure out how to make your dream a job.

cruel and unusual punishment ? the 3 strikes LAW

             what is " 3 strikes law "? The three-strikes law significantly increases the prison sentences of persons convicted of a felony who have been previously convicted of two or more violent crimes or serious felonies, and limits the ability of these offenders to receive a punishment other than a life sentence. Violent and serious felonies are specifically listed in state laws. Violent offenses include murder, robbery of a residence in which a deadly or dangerous weapon is used, rape and other sex offenses; serious offenses include the same offenses defined as violent offenses, but also include other crimes such as burglary of a residence and assault with intent to commit a robbery or murder.
       i agreee with the law in A way because it puts dangerious people behind bars for life and off the streets instead of keep letting them out so they can keep coffupting the state. I dont not agree with the fact that if you only have one strike left and you go to jail for life for something as small as stealing a candy bar.  There was a story about a man that already had two strikes and was let out. After he was let out, he had no money and couldn't feed himself. Because of this he stole a candy bar and was given a third strike. After this they sentenced him to life in jail for stealing a candy bar. I think the three strike law is unfair because no matter what the third strike is, you're fucked .    
             So im 50/50 on this law .i believe  If you are a career criminal, then you don't deserve to be in society. Also, one of the reasons that violent crime is down across the US is the violent criminals are no longer getting out of prison so thats a plus . i think they should change the law to only felonies not misdemeanors .  If two felony convictions have not caused someone to straighten up and fly right, then they do not belong outside a prison.

do you think its equally accepted for a man to cry as a women to cry ?

Men are known as the less emotional sex; they are supposed to be bastions of stability; the rockin the middle of a storm; unflappably cool no matter what the circumstance. Of course, it’s not wrong for men to get emotional. It’s unhealthy to keep one’s feelings bottled up and shoved deep down inside. But when is it okay for a man to display his emotions through crying? i believe everybody crys weather they hide it or not. Yes, i  do think its equally accepted for a man to cry as a momen i dont see the difference we are are humans and we all have emotions nobody should be ashamed to cry. however men should always be the rock and stay strong . im not saying that i was my man to cry all the time about little stuff but if something hurts and he wants to cry i wont take it as hes weak ill embrace that knowing something must really  be wrong . i think a man should cry when he looses a loved one when they get married and situations like that but under no curcimstances should a man cry when 1.his favorirte team looses 2.when they dont get they way or 3.when there fustrated .